Orphan Sunday

Orphan Sunday
Summer 2014
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Monday, September 1, 2014

End of Summer 2014

Well, it's Labor Day - the end of summer.  Where did it go?  June, July, and August were a blur!  So I decided to catch everyone up on some of our other activities as we shut the door on summer and say "hello" to September and a new school year.

Andrii (center) spent 2 weeks in Cambodia!
A missions trip is a family requirement for our teens.  Wayne Jr., Curtis, and Sierra have all been to Cambodia at least once, and Missy went to Ukraine and India.  Andrii enjoyed his trip even though he got sick for a day.  And I'm grateful that he made it home just in time to see my mom before she passed.  Andrii actually graduated high school by the end of the summer and will be working and taking online college courses until Fall 2015 when he will enter Hudson Valley Community College's electrical program to pursue his goal of becoming an electrician.  

 Sierra's new wheels!
 Last week we took Sierra to college.  I now understand what the word "bittersweet" means.  Although Wayne Jr. & Curtis both attended college, neither of them went away.  This is our first experience leaving a kid on campus.  But Sierra is so ready to spread her wings and fly!  We know God has amazing plans for her, so it makes it a little easier to leaver her there - a little easier.

Sierra's Dorm
 God showed her much favor too.  She got assigned to a brandy-new dorm.  They had just finished painting and moving in the new furniture the day before we arrived.

Family photo in front of the chapel.

After Sierra was all settled in we took the rest of the kids to Gloucester, Ma., for a seafood dinner and a stroll along the ocean.
Slava with Jordan the photo-bomber!

Andrii & Anna at the fishermen's memorial.

We spent Sunday in Boston visiting all the historic sites.  Here we're at the site of the Boston Massacre.  It was a great "educational" day for us home schoolers!

Once we returned home from Boston it was time to start gearing up for our new school year.  This will be a very different school year for us.  For the first time in 13 years of home schooling, I will only have 3 students!  Sounds like a piece cake, except for the fact that our youngest two have special needs and learning disabilities.  Let the games begin!
Anna & Avalon cooling off after a ride!

One of the best things about home schooling is the freedom to focus on the kids' interests and strengths while also helping them in weak areas.  This year we're going to focus on a lot of life skill lessons, hands-on activities, and behavior.  I'm actually looking forward to this new year!

We spent our Labor Day enjoying a low-key day with my dad, Wayne Jr., Kerri, Iona, and Kerri's family at our house for a picnic.
Of course I had to include at least one pic of this baby!

Well, I guess I'd better head to bed.  Tomorrow we will begin doing school "lite" for the week.  Next week we'll jump in all the way.  That basically translates into, "I'm not quite ready yet"!  


Friday, August 29, 2014

Summer Season


My last post, over 2 months ago, was about changing seasons.  This post comes as I walk in yet another season of life - the loss of my mom.  The summer was a blur as from January 2014 to the end of July my weeks were increasingly full with taking my mom to doctor appointments, blood and platelet transfusions, setting up in-home hospice, and caring for her daily the last week of her life.  Every prayer I prayed for my mom was answered, in fact, every detail of her passing reflects the love and mercy of God.  And I was blessed to be with her as she took her last breaths.  

Joan Elizabeth Blondell Barger Roberts
2/4/38- 7/24/14

A few days after the funeral we headed to our camp in the Adirondacks for a much-needed week of rest and family time.  It was the first time we'd ever spent a full week on Otter Lake, but Wayne was all for it.  So in one way or another, most of our family was there through-out the week.  On Friday night Wayne and I headed up with Jordan and Slava.  On Sunday, Wayne Jr., Kerri, Iona, and Kerri's parents - Tom & Linda, arrived to stay in a rental camp a few doors down from ours.  Monday morning brought Andrii and my dad and Monday evening brought Sierra, Anna, and Shannon (Kerri's sister).  Curtis arrived on Friday night to spend the last couple days with us.

Enchanted Forest-Water Safari, Old Forge, NY
 While the men all went golfing Linda, Kerri, and I took all the kids to Water Safari for the day.  

Grammy & Iona selfie!

Linda, Kerri & Iona on the Lazy River

Slava navigating the Lazy River

 Back at camp we enjoyed the lake, boating, kayaking, fishing, camp fires, and lots of eating.  Iona enjoyed her jumper out on our porch.  Most early mornings as I enjoyed my coffee and quiet time, Wayne Jr. and Iona would arrive to join me on the porch before anyone else woke up.  My precious perfectly-timed granddaughter brings me much joy during this difficult season of life. The Lord giveth, the Lord taketh away.  Blessed be the Name of the Lord.


We all took a day trip to the Adirondack Museum at Blue Mountain Lake.  It was a beautiful day and the kids enjoyed the hands-on activities.
Slava & Jordan

Sierra, Andrii, and Anna - my teens!
 Blue Mountain Lake in the background.

Jordan & I

Friday night fish-fry at Van Auken's Inn in Thendara
 l-r:  Curtis, Shannon, Linda, Tom, Wayne Jr., Iona, & Kerri

Saturday we hiked Bald Mountain.
Andrii with 4th Lake in the background.

Up in the Bald Mountain Fire Tower
 l-r back row:  Andrii, me, Linda, and Shannon
front:  Jordan & Slava

On top of Bald Mt.
 Andrii, Wayne, me, Anna, Curtis, and Sierra
Slava & Jordan in front.

Uncle Curtis, I want the guitar.
I love this pic with Curtis, Iona, and her other Grammy.   
Curtis often has a guitar in his hands - even while on the boat.
Iona was intrigued and kept reaching out to touch it.  

The week at camp flew by and it was wonderful, but returning home meant returning to the reality of my mom's passing.  It also meant it was time to get Sierra ready to leave for college, prepare for another home school year,  and celebrate Jordan's 11th birthday.  My next post will feature these events.  Seasons change.

Monday, June 16, 2014

Seasons of Change Are Upon Us

To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven...Ecclesiastes 3:1

As the days, weeks, and months fly by I find myself in a new place - a new season in so many ways.  We are still walking through my mom's illness which has me at the doctor's and hospital many times each week.  Presently she's stable and in pretty good spirits all things considered.  I am so grateful for my husband and children who are supportive, helpful, and on top of things through this exhausting time.  And so many people from my sister-in-law to my mother-in-law, to my daughter-in-law's mom, to my church family have all been praying and bringing meals to my parents.  Above all, the Lord is faithful to guide us through this difficult season.

One thing that brings joy to my heart and a smile to my face is this precious little one.  My granddaughter, Iona, is almost 5 months old and such a joy.  The Lord certainly knew I'd need this bright spot during this season!

She does smile!

 Uncle Slava, Grammy & Miss Iona rocking the yellow swim suit!
 We cannot get enough of this baby!  We love on her, smush her, smell her, kiss her, cuddle her, stare at her - you name it, we just soak her up!
Iona with Grandpa!
 She fell asleep in Grampy's arms at church a few weeks back.  I couldn't resist taking this pic.  We are all in love with this baby!
Luci, Wayne Jr., Sierra, and Andrii
 We made the 4 hour trip to Rochester for the annual home school convention and graduation commencement.  With my mom's condition I wasn't sure if we would even be going.  But things worked out for Wayne and I to leave on a Thursday evening so we could enjoy the convention on Friday.  Friday afternoon Anna arrived with the Anderson family as Sierra's best friend, Luci, was graduating as well.  By 10pm Wayne Jr. arrived with Sierra, Luci, and Andrii.  Saturday morning, the day of the commencement, Curtis and Jordan arrived with the rest of the Anderson family.

Luci & CC - Class of 2014
 It seemed only fitting that we were all mixed in with the Anderson's as they are our next-door neighbors, dear friends, and home school veterans.  Luci & CC have been best friends since they were 5 years old.  I can't believe these 2 are high school graduates!
Most of us!
 Andrii, Jordan, Me, Wayne, Sierra, Anna, Wayne Jr., and Curtis.
Kerri opted to not make the trip with the baby as Iona isn't very fun to ride in the car with.  "Miss Cranky Pants" has become a term of endearment.  Slava is also not too fun to ride on long car trips with, not to mention sitting through looonnng commencement ceremonies!  Kerri stayed at our house with the baby and Slava, and her sister Shannon stayed also to lend a hand with the kids and some hay to Anna's horse.  It made things a bit easier on all of us.  

Anna, Slava, and Avalon
 Things are going pretty well with having the horse on the homestead.  Anna is thrilled and is doing a good job taking care of the horse.  Somehow she managed to talk her dad into getting a barn cat, next thing we knew a kitten has taken up residence with Avalon - and our new baby chickens.  It appears we're turning into farmers!  Seriously, we're considering getting a beef cow.  Now that we're set up for it, and with the food prices the way they are, even Wayne is beginning to see it's a good idea.  We'll see if I post a picture of a cow on the next blog update!

Victoria on fife & Andrii (back right with serious face) on drum.
 Andrii is still part of the Jubilee Fife & Drum Corps through our church.  Victoria also comes to our house each Thursday to help me homeschool the little boys and brings Slava to services at the local elementary school when I'm at the hospital with my mom.

Wayne Jr. & Curtis circa 1994
 Talk about seasons changing!  These guys are now 25 & 22!  They took me to dinner the other night as Wayne, Andrii, Jordan, and Slava were all away on a camp-out and the girls were at a youth group event.  I tried taking their picture to post on Facebook and they refused to cooperate.  I had to resort to posting this picture instead - it got over 80 "likes"!  It's one of my favorites too!  It seems like a lifetime ago that they were this little.

Surgery Time Again!
 About 5 years ago Jordan had growing rods placed in his back to help straighten severe scoliosis.  When we adopted him at age 3 he had a cork-screw curved spine, we suspect from alcohol exposure in the womb.  Since the rod placement he's had to have the rods revised and lengthened about every 6 months or so.  I've lost track of how many times we've done this.  This brave boy is such a trooper.  He endures this procedure without complaint every time.  We hope to be getting to the end of it as he's almost 11 and once his torso stops growing it will be time for the next phase.  Depending on his growth and how his spine responds the next step could be permanent rods and spinal fusion, spinal fusion only, or nothing at all.  We're praying for a miraculous healing so he will not need anything more done.
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Sunday, March 23, 2014

The Calendar Says It's Spring

Well, the calendar says it's spring even if the upstate NY weather hasn't sprung!  It's still cold, but our days are busy and full.  Recently I enjoyed a little escape with Sierra as we headed to the western part of NY to visit Houghton College.  She loved it - even if it is 4 1/2 hours away.  She's already been accepted there for the fall, but we're looking at a couple more.  I guess that means more road trips are pending!
Houghton Or Bust!

The little boys are getting cabin fever.  They keep escaping to Daddy's garage and dragging various items of interest into the house.  The other day Jordan actually used plexiglass and wood dowels and built this little table.  Slava decided to enjoy his snack on it.

Great Grandmothers with Iona!
 I love this pic of my mom (on left) and my mother-in-law (on right) holding their great-granddaughter!  This is a precious picture to me.  My mom has been ill and my mother-in-law had a hip replacement the same day the baby was born!

Legislative Day in Albany, NY
 Crystal Langdon, of Crystal Clear Finances invited me to share her table at Leg Day 2014 so I could represent Justice For Orphans there.  Crystal is responsible for me being on the radio for the very first time a few years ago.  That led to our radio show on The New Light WDCD in Albany, and then the Lord opened the door further for us to be on The Sound of Life also.  Two exciting radio developments:  (1) all of our past Orphans No More shows are now on our website  http://justicefororphansny.org just click on "Events" and then "Radio Show"!  (2) WDCD just added another time slot for or show!  We are now on 1:30pm Fridays, 10:30am Sundays, and 1:30pm Wednesdays!
Miss Iona & Aunt Sierra
 This little blessing is getting bigger! She's almost 2 months old already!  She's looking around and checking everyone out - and there are a lot of us to check out!
Uncle Curtis!
 Iona would like to announce that her Uncle Curtis made the Dean's list at RPI this quarter!  

Grammy & Iona
 Wednesday nights are my "date nights" with my grand baby!  I love this special time to visit with Wayne Jr., Kerri, and the baby.
Grammy Love!

Can you tell I'm loving being a grandma?  


Sunday, February 16, 2014

Winter Wanderings

As we wander through this snowy, white winter there are a few things warming our days!  Mainly the joy we are experiencing as we get to know our newest little family member:  my very first grand daughter, Iona Elizabeth.  Though I've given birth to 3 of my own babies, there is something extra-special about a grand child.  I can't explain the desire to just sit and watch her...preferably with me holding her, but even if someone else cradles this treasure it's enough to just gaze at her preciousness!  She is the first-born of my first-born!  And my son will FaceTime with me on occasion and I get to see him handling his baby girl like he's handled a dozen babies even though she's his very first.  I am in grateful awe to my Abba Daddy that I get to see my son be an amazing daddy already.  


Newborn Photo Shoot - this one is my favorite!

Her daddy sucked his thumb too!

Hi, Grammy!

Iona & Aunt Anna!


Ok, ok, enough baby pics!  There have been other things going on in our family.  In the midst of tons of snow, we have been homeschooling, playing, running Slava to OT, PT and Speech, gearing up for a huge event for Justice For Orphans, and bringing my mom to her doctor appointments and blood transfusions.
Jordan built a "fire"!

Anna sprained her wrist snowboarding...
 ...and that was before the Olympics!

Happy Valentine's Day!
My Valentines:  Sierra, Anna, Jordan, & Slava
For Valentine's Day I found these chocolate "gold medals" for the kids.  I played the Olympic theme song on my I-phone while they lined up and I gave them all gold medals for being the best kids in the world!  They got a kick out of it!  Andrii was not home at the time because he was out plowing the 2 feet of snow that fell.

I'll be doing a post soon to update on Justice For Orphans' upcoming events!  God is doing amazing things!



Sunday, February 2, 2014

Every Good and Perfect Gift Is From Above!

Monday morning, 1/27/14, began with me taking my mom to her blood transfusion.  But when I awoke to start the day I found a message on my cell phone from my son, "We are at the hospital."  Could it be that our anxiously anticipated little bundle of blessing (aka very first grand baby) would make her arrival 2 weeks early???  I headed out to bring my mom to Albany Memorial Hospital while my mind was on what could be happening at St. Peter's Hospital just a few miles away. 

Mom & I playing Yahtzee to pass the time.
 As we were leaving Albany Memorial to head to St. Peter's I got this message, "10 cm dilated and pushing."  Ahhhhhhh.  I flew to St. Peter's.  As I threw my car at the valet parking guys I got another text..."born 11:50am, 6 lbs 3 oz."  Ahhhhhh  get me to the 3rd floor!!!!  I dumped my parents off at the room of my nephew and his wife (their baby boy arrived 5 weeks early the day before) and I not-so-patiently waited in the waiting room for Wayne Jr.  After being joined by Kerri's parents and sister, the 2 very ecstatic grandmothers were escorted to the delivery room for our very first peek at our precious grand daughter:  Iona Elizabeth Flach!
Happy Family!

Happy Grammy Flach

Happy Grandpa!

Monday was a whirlwind day.  I spent most of the day between 2 hospitals.  In addition to my first born having his first born, I got a peek at my nephew's baby boy, and my mother-in-law had hip replacement surgery at the same hospital that same morning!  I guess little miss Iona didn't want to miss the party!  The happy family came home on Wednesday and are doing wonderfully!  All my kids are excited to be first time aunts and uncles.
Great Grandma & Grandpa
On Saturday my parents were able to visit Wayne Jr., Kerri, and baby Iona.  I treasure this picture of my mom holding my grand daughter.  My mom celebrates her 76th birthday this week.  We celebrated with a family dinner out at our favorite restaurant.  But the best present of all, the good and perfect gift from above, shining down from the Father of light - my precious grand daughter!